How to right this boat?
This is from TED.
How do I put this constructively? I need to eat and sleep in my apartment to protect me from the rain and the cold and mosquitoes. I need my spouse to enjoy the same comforts as me. Collectively we have utility bills to pay and insurance premiums to account for and student loans to crush our near term dreams. I need to prop up all of these things and yet I know I’m doing something wrong and this video puts it all to words.
We are made to be isolated by our dreams. We move away from home in pursuit of something bigger and more rewarding than our presence, drawn in by the bright shining light at the top of a hill. Meanwhile, our homes are cluttered and dirty and in the way and so we leave them for our new organized and optimized environment. Our kitchens become clean and orderly. There are no smells and we don’t sweat unless dressed for it. Anyway…
The point is that we can’t abandon one track for the other. We can’t find the special Sardinian wine and sit on the floor for the sake of our golden years. How to right this boat? I ate Chipotle for lunch yesterday – that was stupid and wrong and I knew it with every bite. The lives that are defined in this video are lives that are not chosen and in the cold empty space of my dreams, I am free.